I just discovered that this night both my mariadb server in cluster has been restarted by ap unattended upgrades. They are ubuntu 22.04 servers.
These servers are joined in a cluster and then I was lucky because the installation of the second server was delayed a bit and then the cluster stayed up.
Is there any way to delay upgrades by a couple of days from the package update availability? I was wondering if I can delay on of the two servers to avoid to upgrade both server at the same time/day.